Final big unfucking was the bedroom. I still have a little clutter to sort through and I have three loads of laundry. But that’s nothing special when you have a baby. The cats always enjoy a made bed.
A couple of other small victories: the kitchen and the living room have remained unfucked. The challenge of improving a room every time you enter it, certainly helped. But also, the hubby and roommates are mostly onboard.
And something that I have finally learned for myself during this big cleanup:
Do not expect or wait for someone else to do something. You are setting yourself up for disappointment and resentment. I don’t mean that cynically. If you can do it yourself, do it whenever you can get to it… If someone else does it first, bonus. Also, please and thank you go a long way.